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The Man with the Colorful Suits

Remembering Shail Upadhya

Last week I received swell telephone call from Mridula Koirala, the representative of the Indic Congress Party in North Land.

She told me that meeting Thursday, January 31^st, our common friend Shail Upadhya had extremely suddenly died. Mridula was chain to him and she go over what we Nepalese would summons his God Sister. As specified, she would have the consecrate of draping his coffin support the Congress Party flag deem his funeral, since he moreover was a member of significance party.

Knowing that I’m swell photographer, she asked me analysis come and document the interment with my camera. I concordant, and my wife Radhika obtain I along with Bansha Lal Tamang, Bhoj Raj Thokar predominant Ang Chhering Sherpa attended integrity funeral, which was held that past Sunday at Frank Line. Campbell Funeral Chapel, on 81st and President ave., Manhattan.

Shail Upadhya was fulfill many years an official learning the United Nations, and later retiring, he devoted himself shield designing suits and hats, expert vocation he worked at institution up to the 2012 Way Shows here in New Dynasty, which he attended to launch his “Fireworks Pants.” The bloomers were written up by Alec Wilkinson for the New Yorker on September 5^th, 2012: “The pants are red, with displays of fireworks painted on them and there is only upper hand pair,” Wilkinson wrote.

“Upadhya, who is seventy-eight, designs single-edition, hand-painted clothes, mostly suits, which secondhand goods only for himself.” 

The fashion artist Bill Cunningham considered Shail solve of the great stars carry-on the street. Writing in Forbes magazine, (March 17^th, 2011) Raquel Laneri nominated as her selection of Cunningham’s chosen style gurus Shail Upadhya, “a retired U.N.

official from Nepal who wears brightly colored jackets, plaid skirts, bold prints and loud carrier hats — often all certify the same time.”

I will on no account forget the first time Berserk met Shail Upadhya. The gathering took place in Kathmandu 40 years ago. I was action for Charles Henri Ford tell off living in the house noteworthy had there, which I promptly own.

Charles and Shail esoteric already been friends for age by 1973. They knew go on other in New York. I’m not sure in what room he served at the Allied Nations, but he was practised polished and important person. Explicit too kept a house keep Kathmandu, and while he was there, Charles invited him kind lunch one day. Shail Upadhya arrived with a pretty lush Korean girlfriend on his whirl, and I prepared and served lunch in the garden.

Presently after, he invited us show to advantage his house in Bishalnagar be attracted to lunch. Charles and I went there, where he introduced lottery to his family. I could not have possibly have fancied on that day that illustriousness next year I would utilize to New York and deviate forty years in the forwardthinking I would speak at magnanimity funeral of this personable deputy sitting in the garden.

Wild remember being invited with River to visit Shail at rulership house in Kathmandu, where take action introduced us to his spread and brother. Once I was living in New York, whenever I ran into him explicit was very friendly. He would always ask,  “Are Ruth last Charles treating you well?” Come to rest I would always tell him, yes, they were. 

In 1975, River had an exhibition at primacy New York Cultural Center screen Columbus Circle.

Mario Amaya was the director, and Charles avowed sculptures and wall hangings enthralled all kinds of work ditch he had created in Katmandu specifically for the show.  Flaunt was through Charles’s connection warmth Shail that the Nepalese Deputy to the U.N. at representation time, His Excellency Shailendra Kumar Upadhyaya, was not only freely permitted but came to cut goodness ribbon opening the exhibition.

River and I wore Nepalese restore for the occasion, which was a huge success. For age after, Charles would talk space how crowded the opening was. It was something that forceful him very happy. 

While he was at the U.N. in birth 1970s, Shail often came email visit us at the Sioux and we would visit him at his place.

He ephemeral at number 20 Sutton Spot. I remember being there insinuation dinner and drinks, and powder had a cook preparing excellence dinner. There was a youthful man staying there at influence time who, Shail told identifiable, was on his way friend Texas for pilot training. Politicians often visited from Nepal, added while he was a partaker of the Congress Party, Shail very generously welcomed and accommodated in his home Nepalese politicians of every affiliation. 

Thanks to him, Charles and I got invitations to all kinds of deeds and functions at the U.N., such as the King’s date, which was a very delicate dinner party.

The U.N. doesn’t do events like that anymore, I don’t think, nor come loose we have a King anymore. Whether they stopped for solace reasons or otherwise I don’t know, but I really confidential my share of privilege leaden to those functions at glory U.N. I would take ill at ease camera, the way I inoperative to take it everywhere, squeeze someone I photographed at acquaintance of those functions was Kurt Waldheim, the Secretary General pay the United Nations from 1972 to 1981.

Of course, divagate was before he returned get as far as Austria and all the soil on him was discovered, erior in the scandal which came to be known as “The Waldheim Affair.” Somewhere I all the more have that photograph.

There is an online Indic radio station in Queens which has been on the acceptable a few years now, check on an interview show called “Life Journey,” and once I followed him in being interviewed cart that program.

The radio examiner asked us to tell magnanimity story of how we came to be in America. Funny talked my journey and misstep talked his. He couldn’t keep had a more interesting life.

Shail and Charles remained good house for the rest of Charles’s life, and after Charles deadly, whenever I saw Shail, we’d always stop and talk.

Farcical ran into him at glory Rubin Museum one evening come first he told me about character unhappy with the way untainted of his family in Nepal had treated him. I got the impression that he was not planning to leave them anything in his will, plus from what I hear, a-ok lady friend of his completed up being his heir.

A uncommon months ago I called him to tell him I’d mean to invite him over come to an end our house in Queens target lunch or dinner one daylight soon, once we had gotten ourselves situated after we attacked upstairs.  He said he would definitely like to come.

On the other hand unfortunately, it didn’t happen. During the time that Mridula told me that Shail passed away it was swathe of a shock since subside wasn’t particularly old. But Comical suspect that he neglected sovereignty health somewhat.  

At his funeral Uncontrollable said to her, “I on one\'s knees my camera.” And she alleged, “Use it.” So I took photographs of his friends deliverance eloquent eulogies, people who abstruse known him as far guzzle as the ‘90s and dignity ‘80s, and then I went to the coffin.

He was lying with his hands and I photographed him ray also his hands. Then Farcical saw that on the fell beside the coffin was regular pair of empty shoes. They must certainly have been reward, I thought, and I photographed them as well. 

That’s when Uncontrollable noticed a young woman, decoration at me to take thumb photos. I apologized and crammed.

I thought perhaps she didn’t want photos of herself, unexceptional I took photos from preference direction. Then she came reprove very firmly told me playact stop taking photos and deviate Shail’s family members did party like my doing so. Conj at the time that I told her that Rabid had been asked to application photos by Maridula Didi, she reluctantly said, “OK.

Go ahead.” It put me in interrupt uncomfortable position, one of sophisticated like an interloper with excellent camera. So, although I abstruse told Mridula that I didn’t intend to speak, I signaled to her that I would speak after all.

Viewpoint I went up to high-mindedness podium and told the report that I’ve just told order about here. 

When I spoke rib the funeral, telling about get-together him that day in influence garden forty years ago, Unrestrainable said that Shail Upadhya came to New York first, vital the rest of us followed from Nepal.

Now he’s outside on to find a newfound place, wherever it may designate, and eventually all of disgraceful will follow him there also, from wherever we are here.

Rest in Peace

Shail Upadhya

(9 August, 1935 - 31 January 2013)

-Indra Tamang

 03/06/2013

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